Become a Master of your own
Destiny
by June McHardy
It is now a proven fact that this universe operates within a perfect system of natural laws. One of the most universally recognized of these laws is the Law of Gravity. According to the law of gravity, we all know that if you walked off the roof of a 12 story building anywhere in the world, you'd go "splat" on the sidewalk, whether you understood this law or whether you believed in it. The law would prevail.
Similarly, there are many other natural
laws operating in our marvelous universe, one of which is the
"Law of Positive Expectancy". In other words, whatever you think
about all the time, with emotion, MUST be brought about in your
outer world.
For example, when you get a great idea,
and dwell on it, plan it and get excited about it, you activate
the universal forces which will draw in opportunities, people
and resources to help you achieve your goal.
However the opposite is also true. When you start having fear or worry thoughts and dwell on them and visualize the worst possible outcome you are using the same universal forces to bring about exactly what you fear because what you think about expands and becomes your reality.
Therefore you owe it to yourself to
always monitor your thoughts. Become a "mind policeman".
Whenever you start thinking fear or worry thoughts, STOP!!
Ask yourself these questions:
How
can I improve this? . .
What can I learn from this? . .
Is
there an opportunity here?.
As soon as you change your
negative self-talk into positive, you change your vibrations and
you change what you are drawing into your life . . because THAT
IS THE LAW!
We are always engaging in self-talk.
Consider the following situation: You see a possible opportunity
and you say to yourself...
"This looks like a great idea!"
(positive)
"But what if I try and it doesn't work?"
(negative)
"Still, it looks too good to pass up!" (positive)
"OK, but I can't do it right now, I'm too busy.... or.. I
wouldn't know where to start...or..I'm not smart enough,. or
...etc." (negative)
Wouldn't this be better self-talk?
"This looks like a great idea!" (positive)
Let's write down
all the pros and cons so we can evaluate the idea properly"
(positive)
"It looks too good to pass up!" (positive)
"Let's make a plan, work out what needs to be done and take a
first step" (positive)
You can easily see that the second
course of action would be more effective than the first in
moving you towards your goal. The important thing is that we
have been given free will. We don't have to follow the pattern
that we learned from our parents or that we picked up over the
years.
If we are habitually harboring negative thoughts or fears, then we must make some changes in order to improve our lives. The problem is that we have been given this marvelous brain which is many, many times more efficient and capable than the best computer that man can build and no-one gave us an operating manual.
We owe it to ourselves to learn HOW to
push the right buttons in our brains and create the reality that
we deserve.
Let's become masters of our own
destiny!
June McHardy is a editor of the Prosperity
News Ezine and Prosperity Motivational News Blog, dedicated to
maximizing success in our lives. Lots of great inspirational
stories, guest articles and success strategies.
http://www.ezshoppingportal.com/prosper/
and
http://ezshoppingportal.com/blog/
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