Surging Ahead for Success, Issue 13
Monday. July 26, 2005
IN THIS ISSUE
The Power of "Acting As If"
The Rule of Three
There's a great deal of power in belief.
As Henry Ford said, "if you believe you can, or if you believe
you can't, you're RIGHT!". Belief is the motor that
propels you towards your goal. Belief is also the attractive
force which gets other people to cooperate with your dream.
So sharpen your focus, and believe that your dream is becoming
your reality, and Act As If . . .
...............June
The Power of “Acting As If”
By Dr. Jill Ammon-Wexler
Back in the mid 1950's an outrageously
flamboyant pianist had dreams of playing to an audience in
California's prestigious Hollywood Bowl.
The problem?
He was entirely unknown.
But he DID have burning passion for his dream. So this strangely
flamboyant pianist saved enough money to rent the Hollywood Bowl
on an off night.
That night he showed up wearing a tuxedo, placed a huge crystal
vase of long-stemmed red roses on the grand piano, and played a
glorious full two-hour concert.
Except that there was no audience—he fully lived his dream.
Liberace continued to build that dream.
Four years later, to the very night, he performed at the
Hollywood Bowl before a wildly enthusiastic standing-room-only
crowd.
How to Duplicate Liberace's Success
Basically only two steps are required to
duplicate Liberace's success:
1. Hold a clear image of your dream in your mind, then,
2. "Act As if" it is already true.
This is a powerful personal transformation tool.
Whether you want to become more outgoing, quit smoking, achieve
a business goal or create a fulfilling relationship—the process
is the same.
Just picture it in your mind . . . then "act as if" you have
already achieved your desired goal.
Expect some surprising results!
The Impact of Beliefs on Your Life
Beliefs are thoughts that have become
deeply embedded assumptions.
Read that sentence again, and note that I used the word
"assumptions."
When something becomes a "belief," we then assume it to be
beyond question. It is simply TRUE in our mind. And that's it!
And emotion empowers beliefs. So the more intense the emotion
attached to a belief—the more impact it will have on your life.
Your outward actions mirror your innermost beliefs. And in
truth, your actions are actually direct outward expressions of
your innermost beliefs!
Think about that for a moment.
Suppose, for example, you BELIEVE yourself to be an intelligent
person with great potential. This belief will then guide your
actions—and your belief will therefore BECOME your reality.
In fact, you can discover what your core beliefs are by just
noticing what your actions are!
Why "Acting As If" Produces Results
There are three interesting brain
mechanisms behind the power of acting as if:
First, your powerful subconscious mind does NOT logically
question what you present to it! That portion of your mind
always accepts your "acting" as the literal truth.
Second, each time you "act as if" you're courageous in the face
of fear, for example, your physical brain responds by building
powerful and complex neural networks to support that "acting."
Third, as you repeat your "acting"—these neural networks will
build stronger and stronger neural networks. As the strength of
these networks increases, your "acting as if" gains strength as
an actual BELIEF.
Your reality is actually your own creation!
What you call your "reality" is simply the net outcome of the
continuous stream of thoughts, emotions and images passing
through your mind.
Everything you have in your life actually began as a thought.
And so, changing your life must logically begin with your
thoughts.
Your future is actually created by your current thoughts. That's
the meaning of that old saying: "Whatever you believe will
become your reality."
And that brings us back around the circle to "beliefs."
By "acting as if" you don't fear failure, you'll be willing to
try new challenges. You will gradually become more and more
fearless. Soon you will just automatically BELIEVE yourself to
be fearless.
And that is exactly what you WILL be!
Building "Success Mind Power"
Successful people EXPECT to continue to be
successful, just as failures EXPECT to fail. So "acting as if"
you're successful can have huge advantages.
Do YOU want to enjoy more success in your life?
Then your job is to change your internal core beliefs to totally
reflect what you desire.
"Acting as if" you're already successful builds the expectation
you will BE successful. This expectation then strengthens into a
solid core belief that will guide your external behavior in
appropriate ways.
This technique builds the MINDPOWER of success. And since others
respond to our actions, act successful, and you'll be seen as
successful.
And that will even further strengthen your belief!
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The Rule of
Three
By Michael Angier
The United States Marine Corps believes
strongly in what they call “The Rule of Three.”
They've found that implementing this rule saves lives, gets more
done faster and more efficiently.
An article on The Corps in INC. magazine says, “The rule
dictates that a person should limit his or her attention to
three tasks or goals. When applied to strategizing, the rule
prescribes boiling a world of infinite possibilities down to
three alternative courses of action. Anything more and a marine
can become overextended and confused. The marines experimented
with a rule of four and found that effectiveness plummeted.”
I've always believed that three is a powerful number. We find it
in some very significant places. The most powerful physical
structure is a triangle or pyramid. In fact, it's the building
block of Buckminster Fuller's geodesic domes and the Great
Pyramids of Egypt. For Christians—it's the Trinity: Father, Son
and Holy Spirit. And then, of course, we have Mind, Body,
Spirit. Three is a powerful number metaphysically—a number of
completion.
As we become immersed in the ocean of information,
possibilities, directions and the like, it becomes even more
important for us to focus on the things that are truly important
to us—the things that will make a difference in the quality of
our lives.
Three things can easily be remembered. Any more than that and
retention suffers. We can all sharpen our focus and get better
results by using the Rule of Three in our daily lives.
Here are a Few Ideas List the three most important values in
your life. What's really important to you? If you make this
list, you'll place yourself in the top one percent of all the
people on the planet because very few ever do this. Your
decisions will become infinitely easier because your values are
clear.
What are your three primary missions? These are different than
goals. Goals can be measured. They can be completed. A mission
is your vision of something that you'll never say is done—at
least not in this lifetime.
Make a list of your three most important goals. It's great to
have lots of goals but which ones are worthy of your best
attention and efforts? Remember, you can have anything you want
in your life. You just can't have EVERYTHING you want.
What three things would you like to master? Three things at
which you want to become an expert. Maybe it's speaking in
public. Perhaps you want to learn another language. Or maybe you
want to become a masterful parent. It's your life and you get to
decide.
By making good use of the Rule of Three, you'll sharpen your
focus, increase your effectiveness and experience greater
fulfillment in all that you do.
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